Marz slept over after Ina's party last night (which by the way, was a lot of fun) and we ended up snacking on queso de bola in my kitchen up until three in the morning (we arrived around one). We stayed up talking about the difference between embarrassment and shame--and how adventures or life experiences happen to you when you find something that you want more than you are afraid of embarrassment. We talked about the different things that happened this past year: an old friend getting engaged and showing (not telling) me he couldn't talk to me anymore because his fiancee didn't like it, Marz finally giving up on trying to make her old friend/ex love interest grow a backbone, and us finding out what we wanted because we'd found out what it was we didn't want. :) All in all, a very nice conversation.
I think I'll label this under introspection as well. Anyway, yeah. That was very, very fun. We also talked about how the older you get, the more people you need who knew you when you were young--even if I meet lots of new people, I think in the end it's good to be with people who knew you when you were young and stupid. :)) We talked about our friend Nico (alright don't be flattered, you) and how we admire him for being so honest--his self-deprecation is always refreshing because to some extent, he does mean what he says: he really wants what he jokes about wanting. <33 It was a very nice, heart-warming conversation.
I'm off to Greenhills to go on a date with Keav in a bit. <33 Have a good Sunday, loves!
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